The words of the Five Love Languages A post with a title like this- would usually be posted on the E.L. Byrne blog. It’s more about relationships than sex- and this blog is ALL about the sex… but the thing is, this story relates to sex, I promise (and to relationships.) When I was dating…
Category: Relationships
He misses me! My relationship with Stefan has never been traditionally romantic. We don’t talk about our feelings (maybe once in a great while), and we’re not texting good morning every day kind of people. Heck, some weeks, we don’t text at all. No flowers, romantic dinners out at fabulous restaurants. But what we have…
Inspired by a post from the wonderful Girl on the Net… 13 of the Hottest Blog Posts, I thought I would look back at Lustitude and remember some of my hottest posts. ********** 1- ALL the Sex Scientist Stories OK- I could say that every single Sex Scientist story is my favorite, but then I…
I cried last night, I cried hard. If you knew me, you would think, “So? Big deal, you ALWAYS cry.” And you wouldn’t be wrong. I do cry, a lot. I cried watching the Copa America when Brazil won. I cried when all the players started bringing their children onto the field and hugging them….
Psst, come here, I am going to tell you a secret. Come closer, sit down beside me so I can whisper in your ear, because it’s something I’m ashamed of and I don’t want to say it too loudly, lest word get out on the internet or some such thing… “I am THAT girl.” What…
I had an amazing magical first date, with KS, this weekend. Amazing as in, I kept looking at him and in my head thinking… “OMG I am going to fall in love with you!” “I am already half in love with you!” “You are so freaking amazing, whatever am I going to do?” He sent…
Ok Ladies, let’s talk body image. I know, I know, this is a sex and dating blog! So why are we talking about body image? Because, Uhh, Ladies… You cannot possibly be having amazing orgasms if you are always worried about the way you look. Turning off the lights, worrying about what he thinks about…
So there is this phenomenon, I call it “Date and Dash.” Remember, when you were a kid? Ding, Dong, Dash? Go up to your neighbor’s door, ring the bell, and run like the wind before they could see you? It’s like that! Really! You go on a date with a guy, and he completely disappears…
I don’t know about you, but I find it difficult to talk about my feelings. I find it difficult not only express my wants and needs, but to even know clearly what they are in the first place. My explorations into polyamory and ethical non-monogamy have made me realize, so many times over the past…